Author's Forum
Please use our Comments
form to respond to the articles.
Narcissistic Problems in Analysts
(reprinted with persmission, Int. J. Psycho-Anal.
(1985) 66, 433)
Janet
Schumacher Finell, New York
For always I am Caesar ... (Act I, Sc. II)
I am constant as the Northern Star,
Of whose true-fixed and resting quality
There is no fellow in the firmament...
That unassailable holds on his rank,
Unshaked of motion, and that I am he...
(Act
III, Sc. I, Julius Caesar - William Shakespeare)
INTRODUCTION
Volumes
of psychoanalytic writings focus on narcissistic pathology today.
The topic is of central importance and attracts interest and lively
controversy. Concurrent with the intense interest in narcissism
is an ever-growing realization of the importance of countertransference
in the analyst's work. Narcissistic reactions and countertransference
part company at the point of considering the possibility that narcissism
in the analyst may not always be a reaction to patient narcissism.
It may in fact exist independent and quite separate from patient
pathology.
Painful
feelings of shame lower self-regard and affect self-esteem when
the analyst is faced with defects in his idealized self-representation.
The impossibility of processing denied and split-off feelings throws
the burden of responsibility on to the analyst's personal analysis.
If this fails to work through grandiosity, exhibitionism, aggression.
and power, the potential for counter-transference over and above
a specific reaction to a narcissistic transference in patients is
enormous. The field affords many possibilities for gratification
of narcissistic longings. Following Freud's spirit of shared humanity
in regard to his adhering to the same model of neurosis in studying
his own psyche and that of his patients, narcissistic issues should
become a respectable area of concern among analysts.
RECOGNIZING
NARCISSISM
The issue to which this paper is directed is: To what extent can
we as analysts work through our narcissism in our personal analysis?
If it has not been worked through, can we recognize its continued
existence and accept it so that it does not interfere with our treatment
cases? Can we seek out treatment for the express purpose of working
through our own narcissism? In effect, can one see one's own narcissism?
Can we select an analyst who will make an impact on our narcissism?
Why is this area often neglected in the volumes of countertransference
literature? Is this a blind spot. too sensitive to be dealt with
in writing?
The
honesty and self-disclosure evident in much of the countertransference
literature (Tower, 1956; Racker, 1957) is sorely missed in this
area. Is there unconscious collusion among analyststo avoid this
issue except where it can be explained as 'narcissistic tension'
(Kohut, 1977) which reflects 'residues' of narcissism in the analyst?
The split between the patient and analyst--the narcissistic patient
is hypothetically treated by a better-integrated, object-related
analyst who, at the worst, struggles with residues of narcissism--may
be a reaction formation against a commonly shared secret in the
profession: that analysts, too, struggle with narcissism.
It
is my hope that this paper will arouse questions in the reader's
mind about these issues in him/herself. If it accomplishes that
much, a lot will have been gained. One might ask, what role can
study and reading psychoanalytic papers play? Since these experiences
are filtered through the cognitive and intellectual ego, they are
unlikely to have any impact on our introjects or our emotions.
In
fact, they may intensify the intellectualizing, defensive ego functions
rather than expand the experiencing ego's domain. Freud (1937) was
pessimistic about activating dormant conflicts through analysis
or through reading. He wrote:
The reader is 'stimulated' only by those passages which he feels
apply to himself--that is, which concern conflicts that are active
in him at the time. Everything else leaves him cold (p. 233).
Yet for some, reading and hearing papers can have a profound effect,
activating barely thought-out concerns, bringing to consciousness
preconscious issues, adding understanding to difficult treatment
problems, or helping in the conceptualization of a clinical issue.
However, where narcissistic defences predominate, material that
can be challenging, anxiety-provoking, or otherwise disturbing will
be attacked as inaccurate and wrong, and denigrated or rejected.
Narcissistic defences are particularly impenetrable to cognitive
appeals, thus making this area even more resistant to logical presentations
than other characterological issues.
Given
that the narcissistic individual is heavily invested in not processing
his or her pathology and deeply defends and splits off troublesome
feelings, narcissism in analysts finds many gratifications. Since
the narcissistic individual has intense envy-aroused aggression
and narcissistic rage, products of early frustration and disappointment
(Kohut, 1971), or in another view, intense innate aggression (Kernberg,
1975; Rosenfeld, 1964), these feelings are not easily integrated
in a self that splits off and projects unwanted feelings.
Personal
analysis may not resolve the problem if the narcissistic individual
discharges and splits off his/her aggression on to 'safe' targets.
Grotstein (1981) writes about this phenomenon: 'if the analyst is
held in a highly idealized position, then the negative transference
may be split off and projected into objects on the outside' (p.
178). The search for safe targets may be gratified by the presence
of colleagues of different theoretical positions. Institute politics
provide an acceptable and convenient outlet for aggression.
Such
politics also provide gratification for grandiosity, exhibitionism,
and desires for power and control. Denying and splitting off aggression
makes it unavailable in the transference. Defensively, split-off
aggression fosters the treating or personal analyst's narcissistic
feelings of goodness, self-idealization, or grandiosity, and promotes
narcissistic over-estimation of the self. The treatment is purified
of the sullying effects of the analysand's anger and contempt.
By
ridding the self of unacceptable impulses, the analyst sees himself
as loving, giving, and empathic toward his/her own patients while
aggression is split off and re-directed against 'safe' targets -
outsiders, non-patients, or those with different theoretical approaches
or political alignments. The outsider may be viciously attacked
to preserve the illusion of all-good self. These dynamics feed the
analyst's narcissism and interfere with integration of aggressive
aspects of the analyst's personality. Self-idealization or grandiosity
promotes narcissistic over-estimation of the self. The analyst is
then unable to process or work with the analysand's idealization
of him/her, since to do so would be to explore underlying aggression.
Aggressive aspects of the transference cannot be processed, since
aggression is displaced to 'safe' extra-transferential objects.
Greenacre
(1966) noted that the analyst's hostile drives may be directed to
relatives as well as others in the analytic community. She wrote:
It is not only the narcissistic needs of the analyst but his failure
to recognize his own hostile aggressive drives which seem to make
trouble by dovetailing with the problems of these analysands. He
may then too readily identify with his patient and accept the latter's
splitting of transference with projection of negative transference
onto others, especially accessory members of the patient's family
or of the analytic community (pp. 210--11).
To return to the central theme of this paper:
How
can one know if one is defending against narcissism, and, if so.
what can be done about it? Narcissistic defences involve splitting,
denial, and projection, and therefore make insight very difficult.
The self in narcissism is struggling to maintain a'purified pleasure
ego'. The self cannot integrate, process, or feel painful feelings
such as hostility. envy, and contempt. These feelings are discharged,
projected, split off, and induced in others in the dynamics ofnarcissism.
Freud pioneered in self-analysis with his highly revealing
'The
interpretation of dreams' (1900). His sharing his deepest conflicts
should be a source of courage for all of us. Following Freud, can
we face our grandiosity, sadism, splits and denials, projections
and self-fragmentation? Can we deal with envy and aggression as
possible reactions to our patients? Can we take an honest look at
our own introjects and how these come alive in treatment situations?
Some
individuals have moderate levels of narcissistic characteristics
and splits that only become problematic when working with difficult
patients. Broucek (1982) describes how shame and narcissism are
related. Failure to live up to idealized and grandiose ideals arouses
shameful feelings of failure. The painful affect of shame contributes
to the difficulty in processing experiences that lower self-regard,
while experiences that heighten self-regard may be used defensively
to shore up the sense of self.
When
the analyst is in training, narcissistic problems that are not picked
up and worked through in personal analysis may be picked up by teachers,
committees, and supervisors. Rangell (1982) reports a personal communication
from Loewenstein noting'that the most unanalysable case was a successful
narcissist' (p. 876). It is beyond the purview of this paper to
address in depth the issue of how the analyst should resolve and
work through narcissistic problems in the treatment. The treatment
of narcissism is difficult and has been in the forefront of psychoanalytic
literature. A variety of theories, approaches, and ways of thinking
about this difficult problem are available. However, a short summary
seems indicated.
Contemporary
literature on narcissism includes primary writings (Kernberg, 1974,
1975, 1976. 1980; Gear et al., 1981; Grunberger, 1979; Kohut. 1971,
1977; Kohut & Wolf, 1978; Stolorow & Lachmann, 1980) as
well as many reviews and critiques of narcissism and self psychologies
(Blum, 1982; Cooper, 1981; Hanly, 1982; Hanly & Masson, 1976;
Rangell, 1982; Robbins;1982; Saperstein & Gaines, 1978; Sprueill,
1974). The topic of narcissism has generated prolific writing well
beyond the scope of this paper to cite. For purposes of this paper,
the narcissistic character is defined as one in whom idealization
and grandiosity, excess aggression and need for power and control
reflect early deprivation and narcissistic injury. Splitting and
projection are the major defences but may coexist along with higher
level defences. Preoedipal and oedipal issues appear in the dynamics
and it is my view that it is arbitrary to force dynamics into developmental
or defensive explanations (Stolorow & Lachmann, 1980; Kernberg,
1974; Kohut, 1971). I propose a continuum model based on Freud's
concept of the ego. Structure and neurotic conflict coexist with
splitting and projection. Different situations activate different
defensive reactions.
Following
Kohut (1977), in some cases the analyst's narcissistic defences
may be aroused in the treatment of narcissistic patients. while
their higher level defences appear to predominate in work with better
integrated patients. Both narcissistic reactions to specific patient
dynamics, as well as pervasive narcissistic reactions as generalized
modes of responding are addressed in this paper. The analyst's reactions
to the patient's defences are likely to reflect the dynamic interaction
between the two.
This
paper is focusing not on the treatment of narcissism but on how
one can determine whether or not the extent of narcissism in one's
own personality isproblematical in terms of its potential interference
in analytic work. It is, however, relevant to observe that when
committees, supervisors, or colleagues pick up and alert the candidate
to excess narcissism, it is unfortunate if this knowledge does not
become part of the personal analysis. The major setting for resolving
characterological narcissism is personal analysis. As noted, it
is the responsibility of the analyst to treat the narcissism and
to help the analysand arrive at manageable levels of sadomasochism,
grandiosity and devaluation, exhibitionism and timidity, power,
control, and dominance versus dependency, helplessness, and submissive
dualities. Since the analysand will not be aware of the tendency
to idealize and to feel positively toward the analyst, all the while
splitting off and projecting devaluating and hostile feelings to
others outside of the analytic situation, it is the personal analyst's
responsibility to address the problem. In situations in which the
personal analyst becomes theobject of hostility, contempt and devaluation,
while the idealizing tendency is directed outside, the painfulness
to the primary analyst brings it into the scope of analysis fairly
quickly.
Conversely,
idealization of the personal analyst with the analysand experiencing
personal grandiosity through identification can be highly gratifying
to both partners. The analysis has an overall positive aura and
may continue interminably as long as nothing disturbs this folie
a deux.
GRATIFICATION
OF PSYCHOANALYSIS
A quotation from Rangell's (1982) recent article on the self confronts
the fact that narcissism exists in the analyst as well as the patient.
He writes:
Nor does narcissism constitutea sharp separator between the two
participants in the psychoanalytic process. Problems in the countertransference
can be traced to narcissistic injuries and defenses as frequently
and regularly as in the transference (p. 876).
Kohut (1971) believes that the analyst's counter-transference difficulties
'in the analysis of narcissistic disorders are rooted in the analyst's
own narcissism...' (p. 260). They 'do not differ from those which
occur in the analysand' (p. 260) in terms of dynamics. Miller (1981)
writes of the attraction of analytic work for those suffering early
narcissistic injury.
Psychoanalytic
work can afford immeasurable gratification to those eager to be
loved and needed. Greenacre (1966) believed that narcissistic problems
in the analyst parallel those of the patients so labelled. She cited
over-idealization as a key issue in certain analysts with a strong
need to be loved who 'find themselves enmeshed in too strong a positive
transference in which it is difficult to decipher the negative elements'
(p. 209). Kernberg (1975, p. 291) comments on the difficulties of
analysts in training whose narcissistic resistances were not resolved
in personal analysis. Some lose interest in analytic work and seek
out different treatment modalities that offer immediate pseudo-intimacy
rather than the deeper personal relationships of patient and analyst
working together in depth. While this may be true in some cases,
the analytic situation offers much gratification for analysts with
intense needs to be loved,idealized, and to feel a sense of power
and control over others. Analysts with such dynamics will tend to
promote idealization, power, and control by taking a dominant position
in relation to the analysand who is essentially submissive and masochistic
in these dynamics. In these circumstances, analyst and patient collude
and form a misalliance in the sense describedby Langs (1975). The
narcissistic character structure of both is protected, and both
receive a great deal of gratification that leaves the basic pathology
untouched.
The
specific constellation of transferencecountertransference addressed
in this paper broadens that described by Kohut (1971). He discussed
the analyst's inability to accept the patient's idealization because
of the narcissistic tension aroused in the analyst. Wolf (1979)
attributes difficulties in dealing with mirror or idealizing transferences
as a reflection of the analyst's 'narcissistic vulnerability'. This
type of reaction is illustrated with case material by Gedo (1975),
presented later in this paper. In these situations, the analyst's
unresolved narcissistic conflicts make it impossible for him to
process and work with the patient's idealization.
Kohut
(1971) describes also the reverse situation in which feelings of
boredom, inattention, and emotional withdrawal occur in the analyst
in reaction to the patient's non-'objectinstinctual' transference.
He courageously cited:
specific hindrances in my own personality which stood in the way.
There was a residual insistence, relatedto deep and old fixation
points, on seeing myself in the narcissistic center of the stage...
Thus I refused to entertain the possibility that I was not an object
for the patient ... but only, as I reluctantly came to see, an impersonal
function, without significance except insofar as it related to the
kingdom of her own remobilized narcissistic grandeur and exhibitionism
(pp. 287--8).
Kohut's honesty about his own unresolved narcissistic issues is
admirable and apparently led to his overcoming personal reactions
which led to emotional withdrawal in work with patients who did
not cathect him with object-instinctual libido. One should also
recognize, however, that an enactment or projective identification
is occurring in which the analyst is made to feel excluded and rejected
the way the patient once felt in relation to significant others.
Kohut's patient's behaviour may represent an identification with
a narcissistic and rejecting parent. She excludes the analyst as
she was excluded by her parents.
The present paper enlarges the scope of the study of narcissism
in analysts by including those treatment situations in which idealization
is fostered, accepted. and encouraged. In these cases, the analyst
does not experience conscious narcissistic tensionsince the narcissistic
gratification is ego-syntonic. As a result, there is no awareness
of conflict either interpersonally between patient and analyst,
or intra-psychically within the patient and analyst. Negative feelings
are split off and directed to 'safe' objects.
IDEALIZATION AND GRANDIOSITY
This paper is specifically addressing idealization, grandiosity,
and related issues. Kernberg and Kohut have been prominent in writing
about these dynamics and treatment approach. Kernberg (1975) sees
idealization as regressive and defensive against conflict and rage,
while Kohut (1971) sees it as evidence of developmental arrest and
missing structure. While Kohut sees it as a reflection of an early
need to idealize parent figures, Kernberg sees it as a reaction
formation against oral rage, loss, and disappointment. It should
be noted that Kernberg's thinking follows Klein (1957), who believed
that idealization and omnipotent longings were a reaction to early
deprivation and losses, and were defensive against rage. Kernberg
advocates interpretation toward the end of promoting ego development
through integrating the split idealization and devaluation. A more
reality-based ego would be reflected in a less harsh, punitive and
grandiose superego. Kohut advocates an empathic approach in which
structure is built through transmuting internalizations which involve
'a depersonalization of the introjected aspects of the image of
the object, mainly in the form of a shift of emphasis from the total
human context of the personality of the object to certain of its
specific functions' (1971, p. 50).
Stolorow
& Lachmann (1980), in an attempt to resolve differences in the
understanding of idealization, offer case examples illustrating
preoedipally based developmental idealization, and oedipal-conflict
based idealization. Their explanation of idealization is based on
the degree of self and object differentiation which appears in the
transference De-differentiationof self and object in the transference
is indicative of missing structure in contrast to an ability to
maintain separate self and object images in the transference in
patients with higher levels of development. I consider their explanation
to be overly schematized as it is not based on a continuum model,
following Freud's thinking on the ego.
The
polarization and categorization that attributes narcissistic pathology
to patients but not to analysts is paralleled by a theoretical schema
that attributes narcissism to either developmental arrest or defensive
regression from conflict. I believe that people are complex, and
that narcissism reflects complex character configurations with elements
of structural defect as well as regression from conflict. Moreover,
I find the concept of missing structure problematic in that if something
is missing, the void must be filled in some manner. Conceptually,
it is hard to conceive of missing structure that is not filled with
something--in psychoanalytic terms--either pathological or at least
skewed structure.
McDougall's
(1982) conception of narcissism not only deals with oedipal and
pre-oedipal determinants, but takes issue with the popular stance
of opposing narcissistic with neurotic disorders. Rather than categorize
patients as narcissistic, neurotic, obsessional, masochistic or
schizoid disorder, each individual 'mental mosaic' (1982, p. 375)
needs to be understood. Since 'such understanding is necessarily
filtered through our own intricate network of libidinal investments
and narcissistic defenses' (p. 375), it is important not to bring
our own biases into our clinical work. An over-emphasis on using
a particular designation such as 'narcissistic personality disorder'
might then, in my opinion, reflect projected narcissistic tendencies
that can be defensively disavowed by finding them in one's patients
rather than in oneself.
THE SELF IN NARCISSISM
It seems most helpful to me to conceptualize narcissism as a function
of a self that has difficulty in containing painful states and feelings.
Freud's (1920) concept of the purified pleasure ego can be applied
to a state of the self in which unpleasantness is projected outward.
In 'Beyond the pleasure principle' (1920), Freud described how internal
impulses which could not be kept out of the infantile psyche through
the protective shield or stimulus barrier were projected outward.
He wrote:
There is a tendency to treat them [internal excitations] I as though
they were acting, not from the inside, but from the outside, so
that it may be possible to bring the shield against stimuli into
operation as a means of defense against them. This is the origin
of projection, which is destined to play such a large part in the
causation of pathological processes (p. 29).
Today, the concept of projective identification. originated by Klein
(1957), has come to be regarded as an important technical tool in
working with narcissism (Rosenfeld, 1983; Segal, 1983). However,
controversy exists about the concept and its clinical application
(Finell, 1984).
The
crux of the problem is that, by definition, it is impossible to
discover independently that one is splitting since the unwanted
feelings and experiences are pushed outside of the self and projected
to others. McDougall (1980) clearly describes the clinical situation
that exists when the analysand expels painful affects and attempts
to induce them in the analyst. The nature of the process makes self-awareness
impossible by definition unless outside help can be internalized.
Since narcissistic defences eliminate the experience of conflict,
and painful emotional states may be induced in the object, the interpretive
work must address these dynamics. The elimination of feelings, the
unawareness of pain, and its projection to the analyst need to become
the focus of the transference analysis. This can occur only if the
analyst himself/herself is not drawn into the patient's projections.
Thus, if the analyst accepts the projection of grandiosity, the
idealization is acted out. This type of unconscious interaction
has been termed projective counter-identification (Grinberg, 1962).
CASE MATERIAL
I. Published case material affords an excellent way to studv controversial
issues since the original source is available to all, in contrast
to one's own case material which is inevitably subjective. Gedo's
fascinating account of problems arising in the course of analytic
work when a silent idealization was not analysed provides a good
case example. In one of his cases he describes how the patient in
the next to last session revealed a silent idealization:
the patient spoke of his satisfaction with the outcome of the analysis,
listing his various adaptive gains, etc. He capped this recital
of gratitude by stating, with matter-of-fact seriousness, that his
analysis had probably been the best one ever performed. The analyst
was completely taken aback by this revelation of a hitherto completely
silent idealization; in the few moments remaining, he did interject
that, from his vantage point such a view seemed to be unrealistic:
the analysis had not been the best in his own experience.
The
patient returned for the last session in great rage. He did not
change his mind about ending the treatment, but he complained of
severe gastric distress, which he connected with being deprived
of his fantasy. He came back about six months later essentially
to say that he was still enraged at the analyst, and in another
year he returned for a last time to announce, with considerable
venom, that he was planning another analysis--elsewhere (Gedo. 1975.
pp. 491-492).
Gedo criticized the analyst who had treated this man for his focus
on oedipal competition. He believes that the analyst failed to allow
the idealization to develop within the transference. Interpretations
were experienced as a traumatic reliving of the mother's attacks
on the patient 'whenever he attempted to idealize his father: she
may have required him to establish a pseudo-oedipal mode of relating
to the latter' (p. 492). As a result, the patient's grandiosity
which was projected on to the analyst via the idealization was not
openly expressed until the penultimate session.
Gedo's
criticism highlights the central point I am making--the patient's
transference has become the exclusive focus of Gedo's critique.
It is quite apparent that the patient is struggling with grandiosity
and idealization. The analyst's narcissistic tension is revealed
by his unempathic and hurtful comment that 'the analysis had not
been the best in his own experience' (p. 492). Even if the analyst
were aware but struggling with his own narcissism, he could have
processed the patient's comment, realized consciously that he had
erred seriously in not picking up the silent idealization, and commented
that the patient's remark was most interesting; he would like to
think about it, and would the patient be willing to extend the analysis
to explore this issue? He could then explore whether he had been
unconsciously colluding with the patient to maintain the idealization
for his own narcissistic needs. Rather, the analyst's retort seemed
hostile and defensive. His 'analyst-ideal-self' was disturbed when
he realized that a powerful idealization was operating silently.
The statement revealed a totally unanalysed segment of the patient's
personality and longings. Had the analyst openly admitted to himself
that he had failed but would try to correct his error through further
work with the patient, and ideally further personal analysis of
his own, one could conclude that the narcissistic tension aroused
by this situation was at least potentially manageable and workable.
In contrast, the analyst could not process his own narcissistic
tension and could not respond either empathically or analytically.
The collusive aspects of the situation were never processed by the
analyst. who acted out his disappointment by attacking the patient.
This account is fascinating not only because of the interesting
case material, but because of Gedo's neglect of the role of the
analyst's countertransference.
Gedo's
article reveals just how difficult narcissistic problems are for
all of usto deal with. While we can easily label our patients as
suffering from pathological narcissism and a grandiose self, we
attribute to ourselves a different level of pathology, calling our
narcissism 'residues' which arise as a reaction to the patient's
narcissism (Kohut. 1971; Kernberg, 1975; Stolorow & Lachmann,
1980). Why then, the split between patient and analyst? Essentially,
the analyst strives to maintain what I have called the analyst-ideal-self
which is seen as structured, conflict-based, and essentially oedipal
except in so far as pre-oedipal issues are activated by patient
pathology. Although Freud followed the medical model in his treatment
approach, his self-revelations reveal that he saw himself as struggling
with the same types of issues as his patients. His sense of humanity
and egalitarian attitudes toward his patients were evident by his
continual attention to his patients' comments and recommendations
about his technique. In the enormous amounts of countertransference
literature, the analyst's own narcissism is described as a residue,
based on an assumption that the analyst is object-related and essentially
free of narcissistic pathology. This attitude seems more self-protective
than courageous, and suggests that hidden grandiosity makes it difficult
for the analyst to confront his own narcissism openly and courageously.
II. Guntrip's (1975) article on his analysis with Fairbairn and
Winnicott provides a fascinating account of the personal experiences
of a leader in the field, in his analysis with two other major contributors
to psychoanalysis. My impression is that the narcissistic issue
was at the bottom of Guntrip's difficulties. He presented himself
to Fairbairn at the age of 48, the age when, according to Kernberg
(1975), narcissistic problems often begin to become painful. His
presenting problem was feelings of illness and dizziness which he
attributed to his amnesia for the traumatic death of his brother
Percy, when he (Guntrip) was 31/2 years of age. Fairbairn was no
longer in good health during Guntrip's analysis. Guntrip suggests
that this may have been the cause of Fairbairn's overly intellectualized
approach. which focused on oedipal material. Guntrip was only partially
satisfied with the results, which helped him work through oedipal
material. At the end of his analytic sessions, Guntrip and Fairbairn
engaged in theoretical discussions during which Guntrip described
Fair-bairn as coming alive, in contrast to his cold and distant
manner during the sessions proper.
The
analysis lasted for just over 1,000 sessions and Guntrip terminated
when he realized Fairbairn was close to death. He feared his death
would reactivate the traumatic death of his brother. He sought out
Winnicott, with whom he had a much shorter analysis, just over 150
sessions over a period of 6 years. He found Winnicott's approach
warmer, more congenial, and found him more comfortably human both
in personality and in surroundings. Winnicott was able to help him
ease up on the constant activity which defended against his fear
of annihilation. He helped him get in touch with early traumatic
experiences with his mother. Winnicott told Guntrip that he was
good for him. Guntrip reports Winnicott's saying:
You too have a good breast. You've been able to give more than take.
I'm good for you but you're good for me. Doing your analysis is
almost the most reassuring thing that happens to me. The chap before
you makes me feel I'm no good at all. You don't have to be good
for me. I don't need it and can cope without it, but in fact you
are good for me (p. 153).
Winnicott
was enjoying Guntrip's role reversal, but knew it was problematic.
When Winnicott suggested that the core of Guntrip's problems was
in his 'primitive sadism, the baby's ruthlessness and cruelty, your
aggression' (p. 153), Guntrip disagreed. He felt that Winnicott
was resorting to Freudian and Kleinian instinct theory in regard
to innate aggression. Throughout both analyses Guntrip kept notes
of allsessions, which may have fostered his feelings of control
of the analytic situation.
Winnicott's
death ushered in dreams which Guntrip analysed himself, and which
he believed led to his cure, at the age of 70. Not only did the
loss of Winnicott reactivate the traumatic loss of Percy, but Winnicott's
death made him a safe object for Guntrip to internalize since he
could not now fail Guntrip in any way.
The
core of Guntrip's problem was his experience of his mother as cold
and indifferent to him, and a murderess to his brother. He had to
take care of himself in order to survive. His omnipotence or infantile
megalomania (Glatzer & Evans, 1977) was a defence against the
fear of depending on his mother, and later on his two analysts in
the transference. 'The only person who could fully analyse Guntrip
was Guntrip' (Glatzer & Evans, 1977, p. 87). While Winnicott
made more of an emotional impact on Guntrip than Fairbairn did,
he could trust neither totally. In essence, he could only trust
himself.
Glatzer
& Evans (1977) suggest that both Fairbairn and Winnicott gave
their highly gifted and fascinating patient unusual gratification
which prevented his being able to experience aggression toward them.
Guntrip engaged in theoretical discussions with Fairbairn and exchanged
books and papers with Winnicott. Although Guntrip reported a number
of acting out aggressive acts with Fairbairn, his hostile transference
did not seem to have been worked through and integrated. Both analysts
and Guntrip colluded in the sense of Langs (1975) so that each gratified
the other's narcissism and avoided Guntrip's rage. Eigen (1981)
notes that 'The atmosphere of mutual mirroring-liking contributed
to muting anything unpleasant which could spoil the gratifying communion'
(p. 107).
Guntrip's
honest and moving account of his experiences gives us a chance to
see at firsthand just how difficult narcissistic issues are to resolve.
By remaining the ultimate authority, his omnipotence, a critical
element in narcissism, was not worked through. The two analysts
were devalued. Guntrip triumphed over them by curing himself. Relinquishing
narcissistic control through trust in the analyst permits internalization
and working through of the deepest conflicts. This did not seem
possible in Guntrip's two analyses in so far as his account is unbiased.
The resistances against permitting the dependency, trust and need
for the analyst that is part of the working-through process in narcissism
is demonstrated in this material. The ease with which the analyst
can collude in these situations is also dramatically demonstrated.
III. A. In my own clinical experience I have attempted to pick up
silent idealizations in my patients as well as avoid the over-gratification
that subtly cuts off aggression. A recent experience confirmed my
growing comfort with work on idealization. A patient stood up at
the end of the session, and raved in a manically exaggerated manner
about how wonderful psychoanalysis is and what a great analyst I
am. She had got in touch with early and previously unavailable material
about her parents and was extremely elated. Her manner seemed extreme
and unrealistic to me and I suspected that other feelings might
emerge which would provide important information on her hysterical
problems as well as her grandiosity. I reflected her elation since
she needed to idealize me and the process of analysis. However,
when she plunged into depression I was able to help her connect
her intense idealization of the analysis and the depression that
often followed her elated moods. Her elation reflected moments of
intense gratification in infancy which were followed by withdrawal
and exclusion of her by her parents. Their exclusion created feelings
of deep depression and loss which became a deeply-ingrained pattern.
These dynamics reflected both her need for an idealized object and
conflict over the rage that their exclusion aroused in her. In early
years I would have felt very pleased and would have accepted the
idealization as a valid compliment. I would have been quite disappointed
and probably angry at the subsequent depression. I would have been
unprepared for the shift in mood. At present I was able to process
the idealization and work on it analytically and empathically.
B.
In my early years as an analyst, patient grandiosity with devaluation
of me left me feeling helpless and inept. It typically aroused feelings
in me of not being needed, of being of no importance or value to
the patient. Defensively, feelings of boredom protected me, but
I was not able to use these countertransference feelings interpretively
to enhance the patient's self-awareness and ego development. Recently,
I dealt with counter-transference reactions while a narcissistic
patient conducted self-analysis, rarely engaging me, but being proud
and exhibitionistic about his discoveries. His grandiosity placed
me in a devalued, unneeded role. I processed my countertransference
feelings of boredom, rejection, and uselessness with the goal of
bringing them into the analysis under the control of myego. The
patient signalled his readiness by complaining that he felt he had
gone as far as he could, and that I was too protective of him. He
wanted me to be more challenging. The concept of projective identification
made it clear that by inducing feelings of uselessness in me he
was presenting a self that had been helpless in very traumatic situations.
His protective distancing defended against dangerous fears of castration,
reflecting pre-oedipal and oedipal anxieties. His transference behaviour
had multiple meanings but the characterological issue predominating
was intense narcissistic self-containment.
The
time now seemed ripe for me to interpret that he had to keep me
at a distance but wanted me to listen and admire him. He reacted
with anxiety to this interpretation, and that night and over the
next few weeks had a series of dreams involving violenceand dismemberment.
These dreams represented fears of castration and annihilation by
his mother, who had physically assaulted him in childhood, but who
was periodically seductive and made him feel special in relation
to his siblings and his father. She was capable of brutality, and
on one occasion had tied him to a chair and threatened to cut off
his legs. The father was uninterested and uninvolved with the patient,
and provided no help against the mother.
In
analysis, this patient's narcissistic armour provided protection
against terrifying transference feelings. When he indicated that
he was ready for analysis of his narcissistic transference, I interpreted
his defensive need to keep me at a distance and keep control. Over
time the patient's need to act as though he were conducting a'self-analysis',
to bring in an inordinate number of defensive dreams and to report
his inner developments in an intellectualized, controlled manner
decreased. The analysis became emotionally alive as the patient
came to experience his conflicts intrapsychically rather than expel
and enact them by inducing feelings of uselessnes in me.
MUTUAL GRATIFICATION
Idealization, grandiosity, devaluation, and fear of dependency form
an essential part of the narcissistic configuration. These feelings
are painful and shame-inducing. As a result, they may go unanalysed
in a treatment that may seem successful to both parties. The use
of splitting and projection makes the feelings unavailable. Analysands
in psychoanalytic training sometimes make use of teachers, supervisors,
and others as targets for their aggression while idealizing the
analyst, the analyst's analyst when known, or others analysed by
the analyst. This material needs to be brought into the analysis
with the aim of fostering a higher level of ego integration. Supervisors
of analytic students have the responsibility of bringing to the
supervisee's awareness excessive idealization or devaluation of
the analyst, supervisor or teachers as well as the candidate's characterological
grandiosity or timidity. The suggestion that this material be taken
up in personal analysis should be made. If the personal analyst
cannot work through the splits, only partial results will be achieved.
The analysand's ability to deal with these issues with patients
will be limited.
It
is not unusual to observe dedicated and serious colleagues involved
in personal interminable analysis in which idealization is not worked
through. Clues that the personal analysis did not resolve these
issues are idealization of a personal ongoing orterminated analysis
and of the personal analyst, devaluation of others who follow a
different approach or are not theoretical or political allies of
the personal analyst, and excessively positive and loving feelings
towards the personal analyst while hostility and devaluating feelings
are split off and displaced to others. In these situations, the
analysand maintains intense loyalty to the personal analyst and
may not be able to seek out another analyst long after the analysis
has been terminated.
The
narcissistic personal analyst has a vested interest in maintaining
the analysand's idealization, loving feelings, and dependency. The
analysis can become interminable with the analysand quite fearful
of leaving the analyst and yet secretly taking care of the analyst
in the sense of Langs (1975) and Searles (1975). The analyst is
sending out messages that he needs the patient. The patient's grandiosity
is fed; he feels loved and needed and anxiety over abandonment is
never experienced openly by the analysand. The analyst is the saviour,
to use Greenacre's (1966) word, who will omnipotently rescue the
analysand in a 'complete cure, approximating even a rebirth' (p.
210). The early deprivation and losses which caused the narcissistic
problems are not worked through. The terror of separateness so poignantly
described by McDougall (1980) is never experienced. Rather, gratification
sustains the illusion of fusion and denies separateness and loss.
A hostile symbiosis with intense dependency needs is hidden behind
an externally loving, positive transference.
Failure
of the analysand to keep up the idealization may arouse hostility
and withdrawal from the personal analyst which may discourage further
honest exploration of feelings. These dynamics can result in an
interminable analysis with the patient becoming either stalemated
or depressed and deteriorated. Patient and analyst collude to avoid
working through loss, separation, and individuation. The analysand
feels he cannot function separately. The personal analyst subtly
fosters dependency and becomes, in a sense, the repository of the
analysand's ego and its functions. The analyst may promote his own
thinking while devaluing the analysand's contributions to the analysis.
The analysand is encouraged to accept an essentially submissive
and masochistic position in which the personal analyst's contributions
are over-estimated. This position is damaging to the analysand's
ego development.
If
the personal analyst gives lip service to idealization in the treatment
because of its popularity as a concept today, both parties may feel
exonerated from any deep exploration of the issues. The transference
hold is a powerful one. Outsiders, including friends and relatives,
are unlikely to have much influence on these pathological symbiotic
transference ties. The patient denies all awareness of the destructive
attachment but will attack anyone who questions the treatment. If
the personal analyst is deteriorating, the projective-introjective
dynamics that prevail render the analysand exquisitely sensitive
to the analyst's needs. If the primary analyst is in ill health,
either physical and/or emotional, the analysand may show distressing
signs of deterioration which he does not realize are a function
of the transference. Usually these situations are ended through
death, ill health, or unusual external exigencies that force the
two apart.
Following
Freud's recommendation that analysts return for analysis every five
years, one can ask--with the same or a different analyst? How does
this recommendation relate to those analyses in which we see our
colleagues working with the same analyst for 20 years and over?
Often the personal analyst seems successful and has a large and
loyal following. Greenacre (1966) noted that when the analyst is
well known and carries considerable prestige in the community from
which the analysand comes, the treatment may get a:
kind of magic power. with improvement deriving from association
with the analyst rather than from the analysand's own development.
In such situations transference cures may result without fundamental
change or growth in the patient (p. 211).
These dynamics promote an idealizing transference with resultant
fantasies of the analyst's omnipotence. The analysand's grandiosity
feels gratified by the liaison.
Rangell
(1982) describes how personal charisma can generate a 'mystical
union...by shock rather than by reason--in psychoanalysis no less
than in social or political life or even art (p. 885). If the personal
analyst has a following and is in a position to give the analysand
narcissistic gratification such as power, control, and other external
gratifications, dependency is fostered through reality gains as
well as grandiose longings. The analyst's personality may be charisismatic,
yet as Greenacre (1966) notes, he may appear 'disarmingly modest',
but [have] a faith in the almost divine power of analysis' (p. 209).
The personal analyst's grandiosity, faith and power appeal to the
analysand whose grandiosity and power strivings receive vicarious
gratification. For those with a hunger for an idealized object because
of early or even later losses, the gratification of emotional and
mystical appeal is beyond the capacity of the analysand to renounce.
If the analysand is taking care of the personal analyst through
a role reversal, he feels extremely powerful. In some cases, these
dynamics hide an early loss on the part of both that motivates the
clinging mutual dependency.
Emotional
over-gratification and abandonment of neutrality also feed and trap
the narcissistically deprived analysand who may want to let go but
cannot. Such gratification is deceptive and may in fact be a reaction
formation against the personal analyst's underlying narcissism and
aggression. I believe that the warmest among us feel comfortable
in the framework of neutrality, which serves as a restraint against
over-gratifying the patient, and permits us to experience our loving
impulses in fantasy, thereby making them available for ego-based,
growth-producing therapeutic work. Empathic, emotional involvement
and non-attacking interpretations are most effective tools in an
analysis conducted from a neutral framework. Neutrality can be experienced
as safe in thatit offers the maximum freedom for verbal expression
of all impulses without the fear that the analyst will be seduced
into responding.
Part
of working effectively on these issues involves honest acknowledgement
of a range of feelings. If one can process feelings of aggression
in addition to loving ones toward one's patients, if one can acknowledge
grandiosity, narcissism, envy, power and control strivings as part
of the range of possible countertransference reactions that need
to be processed consciously rather than denied and split off, one
is on the way to being able to conduct an adequate analysis of one's
patients.
SUMMARY
Narcissistic problems in analysts reflect the same dynamics as they
do in patients. Splitting, projection, denial, and ego fragmentation
defend against the experiencing of painful affects. Idealization
and grandiosity, aggression, power, and exhibitionism and their
opposites are the essential issues in narcissism. Psychoanalytic
work can be extremely gratifying to the analyst's narcissism, leaving
little incentive to resolve it personally or in one's patients.
Politics and other extra-analytic situations can become the repository
of split-off hostile and devaluing feelings while the personal analyst
remains idealized.
Narcissism
in analysts is relatively unexplored in the vast literature on countertransference,
indicating that it arouses shameful and secretive reactions. Case
material illustrated the points made. The overall conclusion is
that the problem is a difficult one, particularly when the transference
involves symbiotic features and mutual gratification. Working through
narcissism should be central in the analyst's personal analysis
in order to foster high levels of ego integration, self development,
and analytic ability.
My thanks to my colleagues Emily Anne Gargiulo, Donald Whipple and
Cecele Kraus.
REFERENCES
Blum,
H. P. (1982). Theories of the self and psychoanalytic concepts:
discussion. J. Amer. Psychoanal. Assn., 30: 959--978.
Broucek,
F. J. (1982). Shame and its relationship to early narcissistic developments.
Int. J. Psvchoanal.,
63:
369--378.
Cooper,
A. M. (1981). Narcissism. In American Handbook of Psychiatry, vol.
7, ed. S. Arieti & H. Brodie, pp. 298--3 16.
Eigen,
M. (1981). Guntrip's analysis with Winnicott:
a critique
of Glatzer and Evans. Contemp.
Psychoanal.,
17: 103--1 12.
Finell,
J. 5. (1984). Projective identification; mystery and fragmentation.
Current Issues in Psychoanalytic Practice, 1(4): 47--62.
Freud,
S. (1900--1901). The interpretation of dreams. S.E. 4--5.
(1920).
Beyond the pleasure principle. SE. 18.
(1937).
Analysis terminable and interminable. S.E. 23.
Gear, M. C. et al. (1981). Working Through Narcissism--Treating
Its Sadomasochistic Structure. New York: Aronson.
Gedo,
J. E. (1975). Forms of idealization in the analytic transference.
J. Amer. Psychoanal. Assn., 23: 485--505.
Glatzer,
H. T. & Evans,W. N. (1977). On Guntrip's analysis with Fairbairn
and Winnicott. Int. Psychoanal. Psychother., 6: 81--98.
Greenacre,
P. (1966). Problems of over-idealization of the analyst and of analysis.
In Emotional Growth. New York: Int. Univ. Press, 1971, pp. 743-761.
Grinberg, L. (1962). On a specific aspect of countertransference
due to the patient's projective identification. Int. J. Psychoanal.,
43: 436--440.
Grotstein,
J. S. (1981). Splitting and Projective Identification. New York:
Aronson.
Grunberger,
B. (1979). Narcissism: Psychoanalytic Essays. New York: Int. Univ.
Press.
Guntrip,
H. (1975). My experience of analysis with Fairbairn and Winnicott.
Int. Rev. Psychoanal., 2: 145-156.
Hanly, C. (1982). Narcissism, defence and the positive transference.
Int. J. Psvchoanal., 63: 427-444.
_______ & Masson, J. (1976). A critical examination of the new
narcissism. Int. J. Psvchoanal., 57: 49-66.
Kernberg, 0. F. (1974). Further contributions to the treatment of
narcissistic personalities. Int. J. Psychoanat., 55: 215--240.
_______
(1975). Borderline Conditions and Pathological Narcissism. New York:
Aronson.
______
(1976). Object-Relations Theory and Clinical Psychoanalysis. New
York: Aronson.
(1980).
Internal World and External Reality:
Object-Relations
Theory Applied. New York: Aronson.
Klein, M. (1957). Envy and gratitude. In Envy and Gratitude and
Other Works. 194 6--1963. New York: Delta Books. 1977, pp. 176--235.
Kohut,
H. (1971). The Analysis of the Self. New York: Int. Univ. Press.
_______
(1977). The Restoration of the Self. New York: Int. Univ. Press.
_______
& Wolf, E. S. (1978). The disorders of the self and their
treatment:
an outline. Int. J.Psychoanal. 59: 413--425.
Langs,
R. (1975). Therapeutic misalliances. Int. J. Psychoanal. Psychother.,
4: 77--105.
McDougall,
J. 980). Plea for a Measure of Abnormality.
New
York: Int. Univ. Press.
_____(1982).
The narcissistic economy and its relation to primitive sexuality.
Contemp. Psychoanal., 18: 3 73--396.
Miller,
A. (1981). Prisoners of Childhood. New York: Basic Books.
Racker,
H. (1957). The meanings and uses of countertransference. Psychoanal.
Q., 26: 303--357.
Rangell,
L. (1982). The self in psychoanalytic theory. J. Amer. Psychoanal.
Assn., 30: 863--891.
Robbins,
M. (1982). Narcissistic personality as a symbiotic character disorder.
Int. J. Psychoanal., 63: 457-473.
Rosenfeld,
H. (1964). On the psychopathology of narcissism: a
clinical
approach. In Psychotic States.London: Hogarth Press,
pp.
169--179.
_______(1983).
Primitive object relations and mechanisms. Int. J. Psychoanal.,
64: 261--267.
Saperstein,
J. & Gaines, J. (1978). A commentary on the divergent views
between Kernberg and Kohut on the theory and treatment of narcissistic
personality disorders. Int. Rev. Psychoanal., 5:
413--423.
Searles,
H. F. (1975). The patient as therapist to his analyst. In Tactics
and Techniques in Psychoanalytic Therapy, vol. II: Countertranference,
ed. P. Giovacchini. New York: Aronson.
Segal,
H. (1983). Some clinical implications of Melanie Klein's work: emergence
from narcissism. Int. J. Psychoanal., 64: 269--276.
Spruiell,
V. (1974). Theories of the treatment of narcissistic personalities.
J. Amer. Psychoanal. Assn., 22: 268--278.
Stolorow,
R. D. & Lachmann, F. M. (1980).
Psychoanalysis
of Developmental Arrests - Theory and
Treatment.
New York: Int. Univ. Press.
Tower,
L. E. (1956). Countertransference. J. Amer.
Psychoanal.
Assn. 4: 224--255.
Wolf,
E. S. (1979). Countertransference in disorders of the self. In Countertransference,
ed. L. Epstein & A. H. Feiner. New York: Aronson.
Copyright
(c) Janet Schumacher Finell
41
Fifth Avenue
New York
NY 10003
(M.S. received May 1984)
|